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		<title>How is it possible that newborns can smile in their dreams and not when they are awake?</title>
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<div><em><strong>bigdre22</strong> asked: </em><br/><br/><br/>My newborn smile a lot when sleeping. How is it that an infant can smile when dreaming but not when awake. Also, what do newborns dream about that can make them smile? Is there any professional research on this subject?<br/><br/><a href=''></a></div>
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		<title>Dlaczego należy indulge w bardzo Funny Videos</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[DON COLE F asked: Dlaczego należy w indulge Very Funny Video Czy spędzają dużo czasu w pracy i innych obowiązków, że konieczna będzie się koncentrować i poważnych? Choć konieczne jest skoncentrowanie się na pewne rzeczy, należy dokonać zawsze mają czas do śmiechu i dobrej uśmiech, lub po prostu chuckle do siebie. Nie ma lepszego sposobu, [...]]]></description>
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<div><em><strong>DON COLE F</strong> asked: </em><br/><br/><br/> Dlaczego należy w indulge Very Funny Video </p>
<p> Czy spędzają dużo czasu w pracy i innych obowiązków, że konieczna będzie się koncentrować i poważnych? Choć konieczne jest skoncentrowanie się na pewne rzeczy, należy dokonać zawsze mają czas do śmiechu i dobrej uśmiech, lub po prostu chuckle do siebie. Nie ma lepszego sposobu, aby to zrobić, niż oglądanie przez kilka bardzo śmieszne filmy na koniec dnia. Istnieją pewne bardzo śmieszne filmy, które są tam obecnie zaledwie kilka sekund, że nie będzie dużo czasu na swój dzień, ale na pewno dodać do niej korzystanie. </p>
<p> Coś do mnie śmiać </p>
<p> Istnieje wiele bardzo śmieszne filmy, tam, ale kiedy odwiedź Komedia netto będziesz mieć dostęp do niektórych z najbardziej wesoły wideo w Internecie. Czy jest ludzi którzy nie są myśli, zwierzęta, polityka, czy coś zupełnie innego znajdziesz, że można uzyskać poprzez śmiech niektóre z plików wideo na tej stronie. Co to jest wielkie, że istnieje tak wiele do oglądania filmów, które nigdy nie wyczerpie się śmieje i nie są nowe i wykonane są dodawane do witryny codziennie. Jak zmienić swoje interesy lub dowiedzieć się nowych rzeczy nadal będzie można znaleźć nowe filmy, że Wam się spodobają, chuckle, lub prawo śmiać się głośno. </p>
<p> Istnieją Very Funny Pictures, too! </p>
<p> Oprócz wszystkich wielkich filmów tam, istnieją również wiele bardzo śmieszne zdjęcia, aby cieszyć. Codziennie amatorskich fotografów i specjalistów połowu są zabawne zdjęcia tylko o wszystko, od zwierząt, pełnych cudzoziemców, a nawet znane osoby, które są downright funny. Jeśli chcesz zobaczyć dokonania innych głupców siebie lub po prostu korzystać z tych obrazów, które nigdy nie powinny być postrzegane, nie musisz wyglądać znacznie dalej niż www.thecomedynet.com. Tutaj znajdziesz dużą galerię bardzo śmieszne zdjęcia, które będą miały snickering was do siebie, w rzeczywistości może nie być w stanie stłumić swój śmiech po to, czego szuka na myśli tylko był prosty obraz na pierwszy rzut oka. A że jest to, co jest tak wielka o tej stronie! </p>
<p> Funnies Służy jako Levity </p>
<p> Posiadanie nieobrobionego dzień? Potrzebujesz czegoś, aby ci uśmiech? Dlaczego nie znaleźć twój śmiech w coś prostego, takich jak wideo na kogoś poślizgnięciem się i mówiąc: złe polecenie lub po prostu działając goofy? Dlaczego nie sprawdzić kilka zdjęć z niektórych naprawdę funny stuff? Nawet jeśli mają naprawdę nieobrobionego dni, to na pewno się wielkim śmiać się z niektórych rzeczy, które znajdziesz w postaci bardzo zabawne filmy i zdjęcia. Czasem wszystko co musisz zrobić, to podjąć skoncentrować się na swoje problemy na minutę i śmiech i rzeczy wydaje się znacznie bardziej niż to miało miejsce w zarządzaniu przed. </p>
<p> Tworzenie Rozmowa z Very Funny Pictures </p>
<p> Czy szukasz czegoś zawsze do rozmowy na temat stoiska podczas wokół chłodnicy wody lub czekając na metro lub winda? Po sprawdzić niektóre z śmieszne filmy będziesz mieć nagle coś mówić o! Można powiedzieć, &quot;Hej! Did you see that video na temat… &quot;i nagle musisz interesie wszystkich ludzi wokół i możesz wysłać je do check out the video. Podczas kontroli, są zawsze bardzo zabawne zdjęcia oraz filmy będziesz zawsze mieć coś do rozmowy na temat i może się okazać, że ci ludzie starają się powiedzieć, że ujrzeli wideo, który polecił zwrócić lub jeśli jeszcze nie widział innego. Funny rzeczy są zawsze dobry łamacz lodu i podczas odwiedzania witryny Komedia netto w regularnych odstępach czasu będziesz nigdy nie zabraknie materiału do rozmowy startery! </p>
<p> Współpracowników, przyjaciół, członków rodziny, i pełne obcych będą prawdopodobnie korzystać z rozprawy o zabawnych rzeczy, które widziały lub doświadczonym, a kiedy mogą dzielić się nimi z nich otrzymasz poczucie zadowolenia, jak dobrze. Po prostu każdy temat ma dostęp do internetu w tych dniach, więc dlaczego nie powiedzieć ktoś wygląda którzy są one mają zły dzień, w którym można znaleźć coś, co pozwoli im uśmiech? </p>
<p> Patrz Very Funny Video Just For Fun! </p>
<p> Oczywiście, możesz oglądać filmy i bardzo zabawne spojrzenie na zabawne zdjęcia na całość z wielu powodów, ale najlepszy powód, aby obejrzeć je i starać się je, ponieważ chcesz funny stuff! Jeśli masz wielkie poczucie humoru jest bardzo wiele możliwości do śmiechu i do udziału w humor, że świat oferuje. Jeżeli niektórzy ludzie patrz zwykłych rzeczy, inni jak Ty, patrz śmieszne rzeczy, które sprawiają, że to życie warte życia. Wszędzie można szukać tam są śmieszne rzeczy się dzieje, ale dużo czasu, nie patrz im. Jeśli spojrzeć na filmy i zdjęcia można zobaczyć, co inni miały czas, aby zobaczyć, i cieszyć się nimi dokładnie! </p>
<p> Są bardzo zabawne filmy i zdjęcia nie wystarczą, aby zainteresowany? Jak gdyby był Pan przesłać swoje zabawne zdjęcia oraz filmy i dzielić się nimi z innymi ludźmi? Teraz, że będzie dużo zabawy! Oczywiście, można również korzystać z humorem quizy, testy, gry, opowiadania, żarty i wiele więcej! Możesz pobrać wszystkie te rzeczy tylko w jednym miejscu! Nie wydaje się niezależnie od nastroju jesteś, będziesz mógł znaleźć coś naprawdę zabawny w The Comedy netto, ponieważ jest tam coś dla siebie. Bez względu na to, co Twoje poczucie humoru i chęć zaangażowania się w tworzenie zabawnych rzeczy, jest to miejsce dla Ciebie by być! You&#39;ll never run out of funny Zobacz i zrób to podczas wizyty w tym miejscu, nawet jeśli na stronie codziennie. </p>
<p> Istnieje wiele przypadków, gdy musisz być poważne i odpowiedzialne, kiedy uśmiech nie może być odpowiednie, ale jakie to życie jest jak bez śmiechu? Nie musisz się dowiedzieć! Zamiast tego, możesz wydać zaledwie kilka minut każdego dnia uśmiech na rzeczy, które są naprawdę śmieszne w tym zdjęcia i filmy. Jeśli tylko minut można się upewnić, że jest śmiechu co najmniej raz dziennie, i wiesz, to dobre dla serca!<br/><br/><a href='http://kansieo.com'>Caffeinated Content for WordPress</a></div>
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		<title>Like Funny Aprons are Like Chefs Who Never Retire</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Vikram kuamr asked: Have you ever noticed that some really good chefs seem to just keep getting better at what they do over time? But how do you know if your favorite chef should be thinking of retirement? Well, taste the stuff that they start to create when they hit the retirement years and you [...]]]></description>
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<div><em><strong>Vikram kuamr</strong> asked: </em><br/><br/><br/>Have you ever noticed that some really good chefs seem to just keep getting better at what they do over time? But how do you know if your favorite chef should be thinking of retirement? Well, taste the stuff that they start to create when they hit the retirement years and you will find that they do create really funny stuff as they grow older.</p>
<p>Like, there was this one cook on a show who chose to use cornmeal in her pineapple upside-down cake – so instead of having a spongy tasty cake for the judges to taste, they got this brick-like concoction that literally fell flat. Not surprisingly that cook was eliminated from the cooking show contest. (Cooks like that need funny aprons to feel better, probably.)</p>
<p>One thing that a chef nearing his retirement might say (and which you should never believe, upon pain of death) is the cliché &#8220;how do you know you don&#8217;t like it when you haven&#8217;t tried it yet?&#8221; If you know a chef who likes to say this and is nearing his retirement, try to ease your way to a side door and beat a quick retreat. It helps if there are a lot of you willing victims in the group – no one will notice you when you escape to a kitchen with a younger chef manning the place. But that cliché does sound good when placed on funny aprons, though, doesn&#8217;t it? Not exactly really funny stuff, until you taste the chef&#8217;s concoctions. At times like that, you need to have baking soda stashed somewhere nearby for quick relief.</p>
<p>How do you tell a chef you like but is nearing retirement that it may be time to hang up his chef&#8217;s hat and choose a hobby instead? That&#8217;s pretty hard, and no funny aprons can relieve the chef of the pain of being told he is no longer needed or wanted as a chef. Maybe you ought to wait until he nearly chops off his hand with his own butcher knife one day to bring up the subject. Or maybe he could chop off his own hand one day while you&#8217;re busy doing something else and he brings up the subject himself. Either way, at some point, someone has to tell the chef that he is really getting old and so are the jokes on his funny aprons. That&#8217;s the bitter pill all chefs have to face at some point.</p>
<p>If your chef doesn&#8217;t feel like retiring his funny aprons or getting out of the kitchen, you could always head off his creating any really funny stuff as food and just get him to assist you with the minor stuffs. You know, like having him sort out ingredients and slice this and that. No major chopping chores or he&#8217;ll chop off his own hand (or maybe just a finger or two) which would be disastrous even though there&#8217;s material for a funny apron there. Good chefs never really retire actually &#8211; apparently, they just go into business thinking up really funny stuff to put on funny aprons. And some of them do quite well at that – even if they did manage to chop off a hand back when they were still chefs.</p>
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		<title>Why You Should Indulge in Very Funny Videos</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[DON COLE F asked: Why You Should Indulge in Very Funny Videos Do you spend a lot of time with work and other responsibilities that require you to be focused and serious? While it is necessary to focus on some things, you should always make time to have a good laugh and smile, or simply [...]]]></description>
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<div><em><strong>DON COLE F</strong> asked: </em><br/><br/><br/>Why You Should Indulge in Very Funny Videos</p>
<p>Do you spend a lot of time with work and other responsibilities that require you to be focused and serious? While it is necessary to focus on some things, you should always make time to have a good laugh and smile, or simply chuckle to yourself. There is no better way to do this than by watching a few very funny videos at the end of the day. There are some very funny videos out there that are just a few seconds in length that will not take much time out of your day, but will definitely add some enjoyment to it.</p>
<p>Something to make me laugh</p>
<p>There are a lot of very funny videos out there, but when you visit The Comedy Net you will have access to some of the most hilarious videos on the Internet. Whether it is people who aren’t thinking, animals, politics, or something altogether different you will find that you can get your laughs through some of the videos on this website. What is great is that there are so many videos to watch that you’ll never run out of laughs and there are new ones being made and added to the site every day. As your interests change or you learn about new things you will still be able to find new videos that will make you smile, chuckle, or laugh right out loud.</p>
<p>There are Very Funny Pictures, too!</p>
<p>In addition to all of the great videos out there, there are also a lot of very funny pictures for you to enjoy. Every day amateur photographers and professionals are catching funny images of just about everything from animals, complete strangers, and even well known people that are downright funny. If you like to see others make fools of themselves or you just enjoy those images that were never meant to be seen, you needn’t look much further than www.thecomedynet.com. Here you will find a large gallery of very funny pictures that will have you snickering to yourself, in fact you may not be able to stifle your laughter after looking at what you thought was just a simple picture at first glance. And that is what is so great about this site!</p>
<p>Funnies Serve as Levity</p>
<p>Having a rough day? Need something to make you smile? Why not find your laughs in something simple such as a video of someone slipping up and saying the wrong thing or just acting goofy? Why not check out some pictures of some truly funny stuff? Even if you are having a really rough day, you are sure to get a great laugh out of some of the things that you’ll find in the form of very funny videos and pictures. Sometimes all you need to do is take the focus off of your problems for a minute and laugh and things seem much more manageable than they did before.</p>
<p>Create Conversation with Very Funny Pictures</p>
<p>Are you always looking for something to talk about while you stand around the water cooler or waiting for the subway or elevator? When you check out some of the funny videos you’ll suddenly have something to talk about! You can say, “Hey! Did you see that video about…” and suddenly you’ll have the interest of all of the people around and you can send them to check out the video. When you are always checking out very funny pictures and videos you’ll always have something to talk about and you may find that people seek you out to tell you that they saw the video that you recommended or ask you if you had seen another. Funny things are always a good ice breaker and when you visit The Comedy Net on a regular basis you will never run out of material for conversation starters!</p>
<p>Co-workers, friends, family members, and complete strangers will likely enjoy hearing about the funny things that you have seen or experienced, and when you can share them with them you’ll get a sense of satisfaction, as well. Just about everyone has access to the internet these days, so why not tell someone who looks like they’re having a bad day where they can find something that will make them smile?</p>
<p>Watch Very Funny Videos Just for Fun!</p>
<p>Sure, you can watch very funny videos and look at funny pictures for a whole host of reasons, but the best reason to watch them and seek them out is because you like funny stuff! If you have a great sense of humor there are a lot of great opportunities to laugh and share in the humor that the world offers. Where some people see ordinary things, others like you, see funny things that make this life worth living. Everywhere you look there are funny things going on, but a lot of the time we don’t see them. When you look at videos and pictures you can see what others have taken the time to see, and enjoy them thoroughly!</p>
<p>Are very funny videos and pictures not enough to keep you interested? How about if you could submit your funny pictures and videos and share them with other people? Now, that would be a lot of fun! Of course, you could also enjoy humorous quizzes, tests, games, stories, jokes, and more! You can get all of these things in just one place, too! It doesn’t seem to matter what mood you’re in, you will be able to find something really funny at The Comedy Net because there is something for everyone. No matter what your sense of humor or desire to be involved in the creation of funny things, this is a place for you to be! You’ll never run out of funny things to see or do when you visit this site, even if you visit every day.</p>
<p>There are a lot of instances where you need to be serious and responsible when laughing may not be appropriate, but what would life be like without laughter? You don’t have to find out! Instead, you can spend just a few minutes every day laughing at things that are truly funny including pictures and videos. If you take just a minute you can make sure that you laugh at least once a day, and you know, it’s good for the heart!<br/><br/><a href=''></a></div>
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		<title>Funny Best Speeches: How to Prepare and Deliver a Funny Best Man Speech</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[James Nardel asked: Having the best man at a wedding delivering a great speech about the groom seems to be a common tradition. Some people simply do not like getting in front of a crowd of any size to talk. They feel nervous or are just plain scared about it. In reality, delivering something comical [...]]]></description>
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<div><em><strong>James Nardel</strong> asked: </em><br/><br/><br/>Having the best man at a wedding delivering a great speech about the groom seems to be a common tradition. Some people simply do not like getting in front of a crowd of any size to talk. They feel nervous or are just plain scared about it. In reality, delivering something comical will help break the silence within the crowd and will help you feel more comfortable about being in front of them.</p>
<p>When preparing for your funny best man speech, it is a common situation that you simply do not know where to begin. Failing to deliver is probably a very scary thought for you. When considering going with a humorous best man speech, you should learn from the best. The best at doing these types of things would certainly be stand up comedians. When we look at stand up comedians, you sometimes just consider these people to be naturally humorous. However, this is not always the case.</p>
<p>A lot of the time you will find that there is just great delivery within their jokes that make it funny. These are things they have worked on. To make this thing short, there are three things that any entertainer uses to make things run smoothly. Preparation, organization, and delivery are huge.</p>
<p>First, preparation is absolutely crucial. When you look at a comedian, it is not the first time that they have told the joke when you see them live. In fact, they have probably had it in their head for days prior. They have probably told the joke to their friends and said it in front of a mirror a few dozen times prior to being up on stage. You should always plan out the things you are going to say within your speech.</p>
<p>The second step is organization. Make sure that your stories flow with one another. If they don&#8217;t, you could perhaps be viewed as just rambling and it would make it much less funny, or even worse, a funny story that is not funny at all.</p>
<p>The third, as mentioned above, is delivery. Once you have your speech laid out and you know how it is going to come out, you have to be ready to deliver it. Follow through with your plan. Not everyone is going to laugh at every single thing you say. However, sticking with your plan will help you stay focused and keep from stuttering.</p>
<p>Make sure your speech is smooth and focus on one person if you have to. You will do fine by following these steps!The second step is organization. Make sure that your stories flow with one another. If they don&#8217;t, you could perhaps be viewed as just rambling and it would make it much less funny, or even worse, a funny story that is not funny at all.</p>
<p>The third, as mentioned above, is delivery. Once you have your speech laid out and you know how it is going to come out, you have to be ready to deliver it. Follow through with your plan. Not everyone is going to laugh at every single thing you say. However, sticking with your plan will help you stay focused and keep from stuttering. Make sure your speech is smooth and focus on one person if you have to. You will do fine by following these steps!<br/><br/><a href=''></a></div>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dan Bacon asked: The combination of being cocky and funny (C&#038;F) at the same time is like rocket fuel in terms of sparking attraction with women. It&#8217;s very powerful. Cocky &#038; Funny basically means to use arrogant but humorous behavior and words. Because of the inclusion of arrogance, insecure or &#8216;self-hating&#8217; women usually don&#8217;t respond [...]]]></description>
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<div><em><strong>Dan Bacon</strong> asked: </em><br/><br/><br/>The combination of being cocky and funny (C&#038;F) at the same time is like rocket fuel in terms of sparking attraction with women.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s very powerful.</p>
<p>Cocky &#038; Funny basically means to use arrogant but humorous behavior and words.</p>
<p>Because of the inclusion of arrogance, insecure or &#8216;self-hating&#8217; women usually don&#8217;t respond well to it. They may feel that you are too good for them and will often become too nervous/intimidated around you, or try to verbal spar with you by over-using cocky &#038; funny in return.</p>
<p>However, once you learn how to communicate in this way, you will notice that the beautiful and sought-after women will suddenly start paying a lot more attention to you and treating you very differently.</p>
<p>They will say things like, &#8220;Wow, you&#8217;re different than most guys I meet&#8221; which can be translated to &#8220;Wow, you&#8217;re not trying to suck up to me like every other guy. Nor are you trying to kiss up to me because I&#8217;m beautiful. I don&#8217;t even know if you really want me&#8230;do you like me? Somehow, I feel like I&#8217;m going to have to impress YOU in order for you to like me&#8230;I&#8217;m intrigued!&#8221;</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s an example of cocky &#038; funny lines in action:</p>
<p>Her: Hey, you&#8217;re a really interesting guy&#8230;I like that.<br />
You: Thanks, but compliments like that will get you nowhere with me okay? I&#8217;m not sleeping with you tonight. I&#8217;m not that easy.<br />
Her: Haha!<br />
You: I mean, I have feelings y&#8217;know? I&#8217;m not just a piece of meat!<br />
Her: Haha! I can&#8217;t believe you just said that!</p>
<p>What she means is, &#8220;I like it, please treat me like that again!&#8221;</p>
<p>A guy who is clueless about flirting with women will think that he offended her and quickly say something to withdraw the cocky &#038; funny comment.</p>
<p>Clueless guy: Oh no, I was just kidding!<br />
Woman: Oh, okay&#8230;hehe.</p>
<p>What she really means is, &#8220;Oh, okay&#8230;so you don&#8217;t have any balls after all? Well, I guess you can be my new girlfriend. Let&#8217;s continue laughing together you little girly-man. </p>
<p>I just lost a massive amount of attraction for you. You&#8217;re the kind of guy who&#8217;d be all soppy in the bedroom and your nice, placid behavior would turn me off. </p>
<p>If I were to actually hook up with you, I&#8217;d be the one &#8216;wearing the pants&#8217; in the relationship and frankly, I&#8217;d prefer to be in a relationship with a man, not a woman.&#8221;</p>
<p>Now, you might be reading about being cocky &#038; funny with women and thinking, &#8220;There&#8217;s no way I could pull off the cocky and funny attitude. I don&#8217;t know that a woman likes me for sure, so why would I risk her laughing at me for suggesting such a thing?&#8221;</p>
<p>Change your mindset and realize that ocky and funny is simply the language of verbal flirting. </p>
<p>If you use cocky and funny lines and behaviors in the right way, a woman will know that you&#8217;re flirting. </p>
<p>Now, you might also be thinking, &#8220;Well, I don&#8217;t want to act like that&#8230;I just want to be myself.&#8221;</p>
<p>Then you&#8217;d better get used to achieving the same old results that you always have with women!</p>
<p>If your current behaviors aren&#8217;t getting you the results you desire, you need to change the way you interact with women. </p>
<p>&#8220;I Hate Men Who&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>Women will often test your motives by making comments like, &#8220;I hate it when men stare at me like I&#8217;m just a piece of meat. I want a guy who actually cares about me and wants to take care of me.&#8221;</p>
<p>Comments like those are perfect opportunities for you to be cocky &#038; funny.</p>
<p>A girly-man will lie and respond by trying to prove that he is the ideal guy for her, &#8220;Yeah, I know&#8230;guys only care about one thing. I&#8217;m not like that at all&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t respond like that. Don&#8217;t be ashamed to be man.</p>
<p>Be honest about your desires for women while being playful. Women appreciate it, BIG TIME. They also place you in a different category (potential lover) to the girly-men (potential friend).</p>
<p>Here are some cocky &#038; funny lines you can use as a reply to such a comment. Remember, be playful when saying them:</p>
<p>- You obviously don&#8217;t know men very well. We&#8217;re all like that.</p>
<p>- *Yawn*&#8230;boring. Have you finished yet?</p>
<p>- You: But&#8230;I&#8217;m confused now&#8230;<br />
  Her: Why?<br />
  You: Well&#8230;because you are just a piece of meat! <img src='http://www.spoko.org.pl/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  I know, I know &#8211; there&#8217;s SO much more to you than your looks and body&#8230;and you probably have an awesome personality too, I&#8217;m sure of it. But, at this stage, I still only see you as a piece of meat.</p>
<p>Remember: Once again, be PLAYFUL with cocky &#038; funny. It&#8217;s not meant to hurt women or demean them, it&#8217;s meant to be FUN.</p>
<p>With the last cocky and funny line above, you should be smiling and JOKING.</p>
<p>Enjoy!<br/><br/><a href=''></a></div>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thejendra Sreenivas asked: It has often been said that everyone likes humor and laughter on our planet. Well maybe not everyone, but almost every person who is normal will like humor provided someone else makes them laugh. And you can always enjoy reading a funny article or book written by somebody. But have you ever [...]]]></description>
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<div><em><strong>Thejendra Sreenivas</strong> asked: </em><br/><br/><br/>It has often been said that everyone likes humor and laughter on our planet. Well maybe not everyone, but almost every person who is normal will like humor provided someone else makes them laugh. And you can always enjoy reading a funny article or book written by somebody. But have you ever considered writing a funny article yourself, or maybe even write a funny book sometime? Even if you know how to write regular articles and books the very thought of writing something funny and showing it to others can turn your blood cold or make your hair stand straight. There are plenty of writers on our planet who can write countless topics in a serious, straightforward manner. But very few know how to add one magical component into their writing to make it more palatable and enjoyable. And that magical component is humor. If you want your writing to be enjoyed by your intended audience then you must add an acceptable dose of clean humor into it. It is the lack of humor that makes most articles and books tasteless even if it contains useful stuff. Writing about any serious topic you are familiar with is perhaps easy, but adding humor to it is very difficult and sometimes even dangerous if you take too many liberties. Hence you must learn some basic rules if you want to write humor and make your stuff enjoyable. And those top secret tips are outlined below.</p>
<p>1. The first rule for anyone who want to write humor is to become bold. Contrary to what most people think humor writers are actually very brave people. You need to develop a thick skin, nerves of steel and become brave slowly day by day. You cannot be funny if you are scared to poke fun at things, issues, people, etc. And you can&#8217;t be funny if you&#8217;re afraid of embarrassing yourself or lampooning a famous personality. Verbally anyone can be funny, but it takes guts to put the same in writing and let the public read, and maybe the entire world see it. So humorists need a lot of courage to write and publish something funny about an issue, person or a concept.</p>
<p>2. A humorous person has no limit on what he or she can think or write about. You must be able to think in atrocious, ridiculous, crazy, illogical and nonsense terms. Modern management consultants call this thinking out of the box, but I call it old fashioned creativity and humor that has existed from centuries.</p>
<p>3. What is important is that you should make your readers think what you have written is funny. But a person who writes humor you need not look funny, act funny or make goofy antics. You should become a person that nobody would suspect of writing funny and witty stuff. You can be a serious type of person and yet have the ability to write fantastic humor. This adds more spice and an aura of mystery to your personality.</p>
<p>4. Most people think writing humor is simply about saying and writing jokes about other people. But this is only partially true. Top humorists mainly make fun of themselves and not about someone. The best humor is always self directed. Direct the humor towards yourself that way you will not annoy anyone. People will laugh if you make fun of yourself, but they may be outraged if you make fun of them. The most important thing about writing humor is to allow your readers to laugh at you and with you, and then optionally at themselves.</p>
<p>5. Unless your article is for MAD magazine or a pure humor or satire piece with no restrictions, there are various do&#8217;s and don&#8217;ts that one should follow when writing humor. Don&#8217;t use bad language. Don&#8217;t make fun of religion, caste, race, physical disabilities, gender or language of anyone. Humor in these areas can start riots on the streets or even start a war. Don&#8217;t use real names of people, friends, relatives, co-workers, etc. You will never know how they may get offended. But no one will be offended if you focus on yourself.</p>
<p>6. When writing humor surprise your readers. That is, don&#8217;t tell or announce upfront about your funny intention. Don&#8217;t tell the reader that they will experience something funny. Let the reader discover that for himself. Use concise, direct and uses simple words that everyone can understand.</p>
<p>7. It is not funny to be always funny. There is a time to be funny and there is a time NOT to be funny. And this is something you need to observe and learn. Something that is extremely funny in one place may not be understood at all in another. Something that is funny on a rowdy football stadium may sound offensive inside a religious place. And in some situations or circumstances you should not indulge in anything funny no matter how irresistible it is to write something hanky panky.</p>
<p>8. A piece of writing can never be final and fully funny in one go. Like a diamond it needs to trimmed, improved and polished as much as possible. You need to review it in terms of using a better sentence, a more mischievous word, rearranging the sentences, modifying to a completely different angle or deleting something that does not seem right, etc. After you think you have finished writing a humor piece revisit it after a few hours or a couple of days. Suddenly you can discover new and better ways of writing the same article that can seem vastly superior to your previous article.</p>
<p>9. Think wild, think crazy but at the same time be moderate so that it does not put anyone, including yourself, in trouble. Often in your enthusiasm words and sentences can flow like a mad river and you may write something horrible that you momentarily think is funny or harmless. But it could be laced with trouble when reviewed carefully. So take care to frequently pause your writing to view it from different angles and from the reader&#8217;s perspective. Then you may need to give your writing a haircut and then continue.</p>
<p>10. The final piece of advice is writing humor takes time. To excel in humor is a lifetime job, and is not something that you can learn in a day or two. Don&#8217;t think you can read a joke book and start writing funny stuff an hour later. You will have to teach yourself how to be funny. The process is mostly by trial and error, observing other people&#8217;s comical situations, mistakes, laughing and applying it on yourself, etc. No one can teach you exactly how to write something funny, but the possibilities of creating humor on anything and everything are limitless.<br/><br/><a href=''></a></div>
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<div><em><strong>Poopsy</strong> asked: </em><br/><br/><br/>I&#8217;m a slim petite lady and I temp a lot, which means I see different people again every 4-5 months or so.  I had one secretary say to me, when I went back to temp (the first thing she said), &#8220;You&#8217;ve a figure at long last&#8221;  Another said (again the first thing that came out of her mouth), &#8220;Have you put on weight?&#8221;  Another, &#8220;Have you shrunk?&#8221; and another, &#8220;You hair at the front looks all dry&#8221;.  I&#8217;m not perfect, but I keep getting these funny comments?  Why?<br/><br/><a href=''></a></div>
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		<title>Factors Influencing The Impact Of Humor In Persuasion</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Kurt Mortensen asked: Humor&#8217;s effectiveness will always ride the emotional tides of your audience members. How well a joke goes over may depend on whose company your prospects are in, whether they are winding down for the day or still up against deadlines or other workplace pressures, whether they are awake and alert or feeling [...]]]></description>
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<div><em><strong>Kurt Mortensen</strong> asked: </em><br/><br/><br/>Humor&#8217;s effectiveness will always ride the emotional tides of your audience members. How well a joke goes over may depend on whose company your prospects are in, whether they are winding down for the day or still up against deadlines or other workplace pressures, whether they are awake and alert or feeling drowsy, whether they have a headache, etc. Always be in tune with how your audience is feeling and always assess the atmosphere you&#8217;re in to determine whether it is conducive to humor.  </p>
<p>There are a lot of factors that contribute to whether or not humor will be effective in persuading someone. Often, it will simply be the mood or situation that makes it obvious whether humor is appropriate or not. For example, if someone has just learned of a death in her family, you probably shouldn&#8217;t start cracking jokes. Another example would be if you were speaking in a religious setting where there was an expectation that a certain degree of reverence always be maintained. You probably wouldn&#8217;t go wild with the humor in this kind of setting. The appropriateness of humor for a particular setting or mood is usually not too difficult to discern. You just have to be observant. What may be funny to one person one day will not be funny the next, even if it&#8217;s the exact same joke told in the exact same way. </p>
<p>There are many other less apparent factors that influence humor. Have you ever considered factors such as what time of day it is, the number of people in your audience or even the layout and lighting of the room? All of these things can influence how your humor will come across. As far as time of day, mornings are typically more stressful, since it is then when most people are confronted with all the demands that await them. Under certain circumstances, this stressfulness may be precisely the type of mood you&#8217;re looking for. Other times, you may want an audience that&#8217;s a little more relaxed. When people are on a lunch break or winding down for the day and readying themselves to leave work, you may find that they are more receptive to a good joke.</p>
<p>When considering the size of your audience, the general rule of thumb is &#8220;the bigger, the better.&#8221; That is, the bigger your audience, the more laughter you will typically get. Why is this? It&#8217;s because laughter is contagious. The more people involved, the more we laugh. For example, when a movie theater is packed, the laughter tends to be greater and last longer than when there are only four people in the audience. This is one of the reasons why TV producers use canned laughter in their programming. Often the scenario being acted out really isn&#8217;t even that funny, but studies show that the use of laugh tracks actually gets us to laugh more. Whether the material even registered as being funny or not, we are more inclined to laugh along if we hear others laughing. </p>
<p>Knowledge of this tendency can give you a real advantage when considering the layout of the room you&#8217;ll be speaking in. Notice the seating arrangement. How many people are expected to show up compared to how many chairs are set up? Always make sure there are less chairs set up than there are people expected. If audience members sit closer together, it will be easier to get the energy going and evoke more laughter than it would be if they were spread out all over the room. A seemingly sparse audience will surely dampen humor&#8217;s designed effect. A more compact seating arrangement will not only help people laugh more freely and more often, but it will also give off the illusion of greater attendance. Another consideration is the lighting of your speaking area. The audience&#8217;s ability to see your facial expressions and body language is of prime importance.<br/><br/><a href=''></a></div>
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		<description><![CDATA[Jane Saeman asked: When asked the top traits desired in a relationship, most people are likely to list humor as one. Humor is something that seems to speak to the human soul. People use humor in many different ways, including to help nurture and maintain relationships. Everyone has encountered someone in their life who can [...]]]></description>
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<div><em><strong>Jane Saeman</strong> asked: </em><br/><br/><br/>When asked the top traits desired in a relationship, most people are likely to list humor as one.  Humor is something that seems to speak to the human soul.  People use humor in many different ways, including to help nurture and maintain relationships.  Everyone has encountered someone in their life who can make them laugh and they cherish the person and the relationship for that.  Humor in relationships is a really good factor that can help make a relationship last.</p>
<p>There are many reasons why humor is important to relationships.  The following explains a bit about how humor affects a relationship and the benefits it has.</p>
<p>- Humor can create a bond.  Humor when used correctly can bring people together.  It can make people like each other.  People love having a good time and laughing is associated with a good time.  The body reacts to humor in a way that people associate a humorous person with good feelings.  That is why funny people always seem to have a lot of friends.<br />
- Humor can open up communication.  Just as humor creates a bond between people it also creates a feeling of kinship or trust.  People feel it is easier to talk to someone who is humorous or uses humor often.  Humor used in a constructive manner can really be a great way to improve upon communication in a relationship.<br />
- Humor can change a situation.  Most people have used humor to cover up something embarrassing.  It is common because humor has a way of being able to shift the focus and change the situation.  </p>
<p>Humor is not just a fun weekend night out activity.  Humor can be found in everyday life.  A person who can find humor in anything is someone who is likely to be well liked.  People prefer someone who is happy to someone who is grumpy and funny people just tend to be happy people.</p>
<p>Humor can be used negatively, though.  Negative humor can destroy relationships.  It can create tension and it can be very destructive.  Humor should never be used to belittle someone or to embarrass someone.  Humor should always be upbeat and keep that crazy, funny edge to it.  </p>
<p>Humor in relationships is a great stepping stone.  Many times, though, people find a relationship that is only built on humor fades quickly.  Humor alone cannot sustain a relationship.  A relationship needs other factors in order to grow and last.  Humor in relationships, though, is a great addition and is always welcomed.  Everyone loves a good laugh and by using humor in relationships a person is likely to find they are generally more happy and their relationships are longer lasting then people who leave humor out of their relationships.<br/><br/><a href=''></a></div>
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